If i talk to you about my past, it’s for you to understand why i am who i am, not to judge or feel sorry for me.
(via lezisloife)
Anonymous said: Did you really plan a surprise holiday and were gonna ask them to move in? Did you lose money? :(
Yes, I did - I was sick of only seeing them for a couple of days a week and wanted to see them every day, I’d looked at places in their town that we could move to. And I’d bought flights and tickets to a gaming event that I thought they’d like. I did but it’s kind of irrelevant.
Don’t fuck around & lose someone you can’t replace.
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Anonymous said: Lotty are you dating/seeing anyone? Or will you just wait for your ex to change their mind? I still don't understand why they left a beautiful and kind person like you :(
No, I’m not - I’m single.
There’s only one person that I want to be with. How am I meant to give up on someone who means everything to me.
😔
“Even if you called 6 months later, at 3am i’d still answer.”— د
(via devil-on-your-shoulder)
i admit i’ve made mistakes, i’ve been toxic, i’ve had a hard time with handling situations in the best way, sometimes i say things in the spur of an angry moment and i don’t always think about how the other person feels. these aren’t things i’m proud of but what i am proud of is being able to admit them and start the process of working on my faults. that’s what is important.
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Anonymous said: Do you still miss your ex? It's a horrible feeling missing someone when you saw your future with them. I genuinely don't think that they're happier without you. If two people are so much unhappier apart then it speaks volumes. True love is a very, very rare thing to experience. And its something worth fighting for and trying again. When you have that with someone it never goes.
I do still miss them, more than they could ever imagine.
It really is an awful feeling; when you planned to ask them to move in together, when you planned a surprise holiday for them and bought them gifts. And then they leave.
I really do agree that when you have true love it is worth fighting for and trying again. But if someone doesn’t want to be with you and doesn’t think you’re worth it then you can’t force them - it’s not fair on them, or yourself. I can only hope that if they do change their mind or have have any doubts about things that they talk to me about it. They’re aware of where I am and that I’m always here for them.
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be nice to people because the world is a shitty place and we all need a little help sometimes
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Anonymous said: Your ex is dating other people now. She was out on a date last night. I'm not telling you to upset you at all. I'm just letting you know that they are dating other people now. They'll never ever meet anyone as special as you Lotty. At some point They'll realise that they made a mistake.
Ok..
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